Marriage rituals mark the formation of a new family unit and are recognised in some form by nearly every culture, typically involving a period of formal commitment, a binding or joining act performed before witnesses, and a threshold moment marking the shift to a new life stage.
Betrothal
Many traditions mark the intention to marry ahead of the wedding itself. In Japanese Yuino ceremonies, both families formally exchange symbolic gifts — items like dried squid or folded paper representing longevity and good fortune — to seal the engagement before the wedding follows some months later.
Union
At the marriage itself, couples exchange vows before witnesses and complete an act marking the crossing of a threshold, such as an exchange of rings.
- Saptapadi, in Hindu weddings: the couple takes seven steps around a sacred fire, each representing a mutual vow.
- Breaking the glass, in Jewish weddings: the ceremony ends with a glass broken underfoot, commonly read as a reminder that joy is tempered by remembrance.
- Handfasting, in modern Pagan and Wiccan practice: the couple's hands are bound with rope or ribbon in a figure of eight — the origin of 'tying the knot' — with the later untying representing a free choice to remain together.